Tana Vanessa Espino, LMFT, Somatic Therapist

  ** ONLINE VIDEO SESSIONS ONLY.** 

You feel everything—deeply.

Your heart aches for connection that feels secure, steady, and real—but anxiety, self-doubt, or old patterns keep pulling you out of your center.

Maybe you’re single and tired of guessing where you stand, chasing clarity, or wondering why you keep attracting partners who feel just out of reach.
Maybe you’re in a relationship but second-guess yourself more than you feel seen. You find yourself managing their emotions, shrinking your needs, or wondering if wanting more means you’re “too much.”
Or maybe you’re recovering from heartbreak, afraid to trust again, and wondering if it’s possible to feel safe in love—and within yourself.

You want closeness and certainty—but not at the cost of your self-worth.
You want connection and passion—but not if it means losing your voice.
You want to feel loved—but you crave, most of all, the confidence to choose yourself and trust your own heart.

You’re not alone.

As a first-gen Latina, I know the weight of trying to hold it all together, to be the peacekeeper, the giver, the “good one.”
But here’s the truth:
Real love doesn’t require you to abandon yourself, silence your needs, or perform for connection.

That’s where my work begins.

I’m not your typical therapist.
I’m a pattern recognizer, emotional strategist, and breaker of mental confusion.
I don’t hand you rules—I guide you to clarity.
I help you see the invisible patterns shaping your love life, your self-worth, and your deepest choices—so you finally stop repeating what hurts and start building what heals.

Using somatic therapy, trauma-informed, and intuitive insight, I help you:

Regulate your nervous system so anxiety and fear no longer run your relationships—or your life.
Heal generational and attachment wounds that keep you stuck in cycles of uncertainty or self-doubt.
Reconnect with your intuition and voice, so you set boundaries from confidence, not fear.
Make empowered, emotionally intelligent decisions in dating, love, and every part of your life.
Move from people-pleasing to true self-trust—without shutting down your heart.
Feel deeply grounded and secure, even when life or love gets messy
This isn’t just about dating smarter or having better communication—it’s about finally feeling safe, solid, and powerful in your own skin.

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or rebuilding after loss, the transformation starts inside:
When you become the woman who no longer abandons herself for love, everything changes.

I’ll guide you every step of the way—helping you break the cycle of anxious attachment, make decisions you trust, and build the kind of secure, confident self-leadership that carries into every part of your life.

You don’t have to keep living in anxiety, fear, or self-doubt.
You can feel secure, confident, and grounded in who you are—starting now.

Because the real question isn’t “Will someone choose me?”—
It’s: When will you finally choose yourself?

** I DO NOT work with Couples, only individual 1:1 ONLINE VIDEO sessions with women **

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